Get prepared to take notes, because this is an incredibly nuanced question with no simple answer. Just kidding. It might surprise (and comfort) you to know that this is an incredibly common question that I get asked… and it also has one of the most simple answers. Here’s the secret: just do it. You’re on a dating site, not a pen pal site. Ain’t nobody got time to sift through dozens of messages and beat around the bush. It’s a pretty widely known expectation that women want men to take charge in terms of dating… and no matter how unfair …
