We all come to online dating looking for different things. Sometimes we’re just looking for a night of wild monkey sex, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Just be safe, y’all.
So how do you get there?
You never want to be deceptive about your intentions, lie to women, or manipulate them in any regard. Online dating already has that stereotype, so you’re already working against it! Anything conscious on your part to do so wouldn’t be great.
That said… I don’t recommend that you write your profile any differently whatsoever (and definitely never check that casual sex box).
Here’s the reason:
If you write your profile to reflect that you’re looking for a casual relationship, a fling, something with no strings attached, or any other permutation of that fact, you know what that will get you? Absolutely zero replies.
It’s been deeply ingrained in women to resist their sexual impulses… and even slut shame other women for having such impulses openly and happily. Most women will never be able to get through the cognitive dissonance required to really act on a profile that is just looking for a casual fling. Mentioning anything in that respect will attract maybe .1% of women, while repulsing the other 99.9%. Not a winning proposition for you.
So what do you do? Just focus on making your profile as attractive as possible – as wide a funnel as possible, so to speak. When you meet up with someone, you can feel free to gauge how they would react to it. After all, you might even like them and want more than a fling with that woman – a woman you probably never would have met if you had been so upfront about your intentions on your profile!
Finally, being so forward on your profile pretty much undermines a huge aspect of attraction – the chase, anticipation, mystery, and allure. When all the cards are on the table, things aren’t as attractive, are they?
I just want to reiterate a point – this isn’t about concealing your motives, it’s simply about realizing how women are wired and how your actions might have unpredicted consequences.